Clicking on a notification or reply only takes me to the original post, not the reply to my comment, or to my comment that was starred. This is a problem with posts that have many comments, because you have to scroll through EVERY COMMENT to get to the end of the comments AND THEN have to click on “See all comments”, AND THEN have to scroll around AGAIN to get to whatever the hell is you’re trying to find. If you can remember at that point.
UPDATE; IonizedDare pointed out that you can access a comment by going to the person’s dashboard. From there, click on the “reply” balloon, and it will take you directly to their comment.